For this first part of this post, click here.
We left off with a question hanging in the air. Should a speaker/writer be promoting herself, or should she just leave that up to God?
As you know, I am a big proponent of people serving in their area of giftedness. I absolutely believe that every Christian MUST learn what their spiritual gifts are and then do all that can be done to develop those gifts and serve God with them. Romans 12:6-9 says, We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.
Through these Scriptures, the counsel of the Holy Spirit, and the teaching of others (Shannon Ethridge through BLAST, Proverbs 31 Ministries through She Speaks, to name a couple), my perspective on marketing has slowly been changing. I am realizing that by not doing the self-marketing required to move ahead in this ministry, I am:
#1 – Not using my gifts as well as I could be;
#2 – Not totally confident in my calling or in God’s ability (and desire) to use me;
#3 – To some degree, burying my talents.
While I continue to believe it’s important not to become prideful (that is, being proud of MY gifts rather than thankful to the Giver), I am also learning that I have some serious obligations in this ministry. An obligation to other women (women who may be walking through some of the same stuff I’ve experienced) – to share with them that there is a Hope of something beyond their current circumstances. An obligation to myself – to be the very best I can be, not selling myself short or giving into fear and insecurity. And most importantly, an obligation to God – to ensure that He gets all the glory for how my messed up life has anything beautiful in it. After all, I have been entrusted with this life and these life experiences.
All this to answer my own question from the last post – Do I agree or disagree with the statement, “If God wants me to be marketed and get published, He will make it happen?” My answer is yes and no.
Yes – God can and will fulfill His will in my life.
No – I cannot simply sit back and wait for it to happen.
God and I, we’re in a partnership in this thing (life, ministry). He can do it all without me if He wants to, but that wouldn’t build our relationship or grow me spiritually. He wants me to be an active and willing participant in His work.
So, what do you think? Has your opinion changed from the last post?
And is there something you feel God is calling you to do that will further your ministry for Him and His glory?
Just a quick note to let you know that there’s going to be some fun and excitement here this week. While I am off having much fun and excitement camping with my mom and kids, I’ve got some special things planned for you. There will be a couple “gooders” pulled up from the archives, but even better – TWO AMAZING GUEST POSTS! You are going to love these girls as much as I do, I just know it! I promise that you will be ending your week with a full heart and misty-eyes…